The Unsilencing of Military Wives: Wartime Deployment Experiences and Citizen Responsibility

One of therapists’ contemporary moral imperatives is to support American service members and their families regardless of personal position on the Global War on Terrorism. One way therapists can respond to this imperative is by seeking to understand Army wives’ experiences during their husbands’ wartime deployments. Therefore, this study utilized a combination of individual interviews with Army wives and a reflecting team of military wives and civilians to explore military wives’ experiences. Two main themes were identified: the wives’ experience was an emotional roller coaster and they felt silenced —and could be unsilenced—in their interactions with civilians. Therapists working with Army wives should (a) normalize the roller-coaster experience; (b) encourage wives to recognize negative and positive influencers and explore their idiosyncratic coping skills; (c) support positive civilian–military connections; and (d) as a civilian and as a therapist, seek to be a positive civilian connection by proactively showing support.